Things I've been told:

You’re too nice.  You intimidate people.  You need to smile more.  You’re too smart.  You look great now that you’ve lost weight.  Your height makes your intimidating.  You think too much.  You’re too smart for your own good.  You got raped because you’re too nice—you let people take advantage of you.  You got raped because you act like you’re better than people.  Smart girls don’t get raped.  Maybe you shouldn’t have been drinking.  What did you eat that day?  Nice girls don’t get raped.  Maybe you got raped because you looked so good in that blouse—purple is a such great color on you.  After you got raped, you walked around with this attitude like what had happened to you was more important than what was happening in other people’s lives—you were so moody at the bar the next week.  You are not a nice girl; you don’t deserve a nice guy.  You need to be careful how you talk in mixed company—it’s very suggestive.  You’re too shy.  Why don’t you try harder to meet people?  Why can’t you just be happy?  Just be yourself.